There are lookers and there are doers.................?

i had a balance of both....but recently I have become more of a looker, not doing anything. Ya I had a balance of both but I guess i was little more doer than looker. I had a wonderful life. I hated gossip and tried avoiding it at any time. I know gossip especially useless leads to nowhere. I was happy with my life, and the best guy here liked me. Life was great. Until, my friends who are all lookers and gossipers, gossiped about things that were of no use, and of the guy who liked me to, they saw small things and noticed small things, and came and told me about it, looks like they had no life. Anyway they told me bad things about him too, which is not true, they hallucinate too, anyway having poisoned my mind, i did not respond to him. Looking back I think he was the best thing that had and will happen to me. He was great. I know it was because my friends had no life and they are gossipers they told stuff that weren't true. And now he has graduated and moved to another state. I miss him, and I think I let go of the best thing i could have had. His family background, his looks, his habit everything was great. He was overall the dream guy. As I said the best guy here. I don't know if few of my friends were jealous of the fact that he was good. Anyway now my life is a mess. I have become one of those looker who does nothing. I know at this age we need to work hard for which we can make our future better. But I am doing none of these. Some people give everything to get what they want, or be with the guy they like. Look at me, getting old and doing nothing. I feel like i am the worst girl here now. I always knew my friends were immature still i preferred their opinion to the guy who liked me. They have done such stuffs that makes even a child feel they are immature. Anyway right now they all have bf, and I am left alone. Looks like I listened to wrong people. Please help me, how do I get my life together. I still think he was the best guy I could ever have and ever will. There was nothing wrong with him. He had girls lined up for him always, because he was so good looking, but he liked me. I know his future will be good because he has the whole thing, looks, good family, behavior. I should have realized the jealously in my friends and their immaturity. He liked me for 5 yrs, and he did not have gf for 5 yrs because he liked me, he had confessed to me. Still....i feel like a looser. Please help me.